Tag Archives: affair partner

new man in town

i’ve met someone. he arouses me. i’ve known him for a long time but have just recently met him. and for the past 2 months he has been engaging me, building something he wants and which he believes will be … Continue reading

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inside his head

the other men in my life. the nameless faceless men. the ones who provide sexual succor and comfort. they who ease the aching loins and kiss the fevered lips. the men who get the tingle of an erection and remember … Continue reading

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lust mate

i think that once you find someone who is your physical mate, that it makes it almost impossible to replace them. of course other people might interest you and you may even be sexually aware of them. but your response … Continue reading

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handling the marriage truths

A 3 hour conversation about our marriage, our intimacy issues and his sexual dysfunction. Complete, cards on the table, full disclosure for the first time in 27 years from him. Not only has he heard me, he has expressed regret, … Continue reading

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Husband, Wife, Affair Partner

What did you think would happen? You married him and then proceeded to remove your affection and withheld almost all sexual contact from him. How many times did you dismiss his attempts to talk about your marriage and the issues … Continue reading

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marital affair

You are completely blind and deaf. You neither see nor hear what is being said and shown to you, day after day and year after year. Your willful blindness and dismissal of my needs and concerns, annoys me, no, it … Continue reading

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damaged adult love

The problem with falling in love the first time as an adult is that unless you are free to pursue it, or brave enough to give up your existing life to, is that when you meet other people, there is … Continue reading

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The reality of His first affair

I am struggling. I am angry. I am hurt. I don’t want to understand his version of what happened. Frankly, I don’t care. I am probably more aware of what happened than he is anyway. I “know” who I am, … Continue reading

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the meeting

He is as beautiful as I remember. Every fine line and detail, perfect. I have never had this type of full body instant reaction to any other person in my entire life. Physically, I completely respond to his presence. It … Continue reading

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when love quits

Yes, you can love two people at the same time, even if the type of love is very different from the other. It is so vastly different that it lives separately, inside of the same person easily. It is completely … Continue reading

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