in my family, the women divorce assholes ; in his family, the men stay married to bitches
kind of explains the strange direction our marriage has traveled and why it has worked to some extent. as much as i am ready to walk away from the ‘marriage’ i haven’t because i won’t walk away from the family. and in spite of his shortcomings as a husband, he is undoubtedly a father who tries his hardest when it comes to his children, which i respect and admire. we all have faults. and if i am honest, i can live with his, if he can live with mine.