piece. of. shit.
i am horrified. pissed off. angry. grateful. scared. relieved. nauseous. all at once. i have never been happier that my best friend is divorced from the insane idiot who did not deserve her and who has the undeserved privilege to remain in her life simply because she had children with him. children he did not deserve. that he has put in repeated danger because he is not just an idiot, but one with multiple psychiatric issues which are unstable.
but for the grace of God, the child laying in a hospital bed recovering from major surgery while he was in the care of his father and who decided to not bother, that’s right…not bother…calling his exwife to advise of the emergency surgery, is going to be okay. The creeping idea of ‘what if’ makes you want to commit violence upon him. withholding information that a child is sick is brutal. withholding information that he requires emergency surgery is fucking unforgivable.