parental failure: withholding critical information

piece. of. shit.

i am horrified. pissed off. angry. grateful. scared. relieved. nauseous. all at once. i have never been happier that my best friend is divorced from the insane idiot who did not deserve her and who has the undeserved privilege to remain in her life simply because she had children with him. children he did not deserve. that he has put in repeated danger because he is not just an idiot, but one with multiple psychiatric issues which are unstable.

but for the grace of God, the child laying in a hospital bed recovering from major surgery while he was in the care of his father and who decided to not bother, that’s right…not bother…calling his exwife to advise of the emergency surgery, is going to be okay. The creeping idea of ‘what if’ makes you want to commit violence upon him. withholding information that a child is sick is brutal. withholding information that he requires emergency surgery is fucking unforgivable.

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9 Responses to parental failure: withholding critical information

  1. Shalom says:

    i can relate. my ex didn’t feed his son lunch ‘because he never asked’. my stepson is autistic and wouldn’t ask for it, so he would show up at my place with constant headaches. Douchebags.

  2. Shalom says:

    Glad the kiddo will be ok and that i don’t know where the sperm donor lives.

  3. Reblogged this on georgeforfun and commented:
    Praying for you and your child. I can’t imagine how you are feeling right now. Our system needs major overhauling.

  4. ismeisreallyme says:

    wow! he is a piece of crap!! so glad to hear the kiddo will recover 😖

  5. thruthemist says:

    It never ceases to amaze me that the children of our society are placed at risk so often because our court system has no balls. A issue that also looms on the horizon is what is this going to do to this child as he grows up, realizes what has happened to him that he nor his mother had no control over thanks to a system that gives rights to a donor that will never be a parent. What is allowed to happen to innocent children in a national shame. What ever happened to common sense when it comes to custody?

    I am glad the child will be physically ok but there will be other scars far less noticeable to the naked eye. And I am with Shalom, I am glad I don’t know his address. Prayers offered for your friend and her child.

    • rougedmount says:

      wanting to commit violence on someone for what they do to someone you love ..is real..and it takes more control than most people can imagine, to not do what your very real and inhuman nature wants you to do…which is rip their throat out with your bare hands

      • thruthemist says:

        It does take incredible control. When I read or hear stories like this it brings a situation back with such clarity and force. Although peaceful by nature, it was the one time in my life where I truly felt hatred for another. Not easily tamed by time or forgotten. Many nights during that period I wanted nothing more than to see him off this earth. Today I know that time has a way of sorting things out. I don’t even need to know what his fate is, it will all be taken care of.

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