I am a normal woman, average really, in every way, yet who has the maturity and experience to understand the mechanics of an affair and how to manage a secondary relationship without becoming zealous in the excitement of finding a compatible partner. I am educated, well spoken, generally in control of myself and am exceptionally well balanced. I am thoughtful, pragmatic and expect to be considered as a valued friend if and when I become part of someone’s intimate life.
I can intimidate men, if they are not strong themselves, as I am generally quite forward in my approach and way of speaking, which is not often what they are familiar with. If a man can’t handle communication with me in the written medium, then the reality is they simply will not be able to do it in real life either, as I only get more challenging in person.
I am not for a novice or under experienced man. My equal understands that we are extremely different and completely identical in how we approach the world and the opposite sex. The only demanding male I respond to, is one who accepts and respects my own demanding personality. I do not want to be the one controlling each and every interaction we would have or my personality is such that I will. It will mean his devaluation as a man and a partner, especially if I am always forced into making the rules for our interaction.
I don’t do inches as I measure in miles. I expect the man I am with to be well endowed when it comes to his personality and character.