do you know how heavy a big cock actually is? how much pressure is created from the weight of it pressed against you and from the thrusting of it, inside of you? this is something that i am not sure a heterosexual man, who is not well endowed, truly understands unless he has been given the opportunity to play with toys on his partner. not many ‘straight’ men have the opportunity to feel the weight of a penis, other than their own.
one of the toys i have is a 9 inch, heavily veined, white dildo complete with appropriately matching pendulous balls. this is the ‘go to’ toy that my spouse is attracted to, whenever i ask him to retrieve one from the toy box, to use on me. needless to say, because it is so dramatically different from his own small penis, i think it’s what creates his fascination with it. visually speaking, when he sees that my body can accommodate its entirety when i am aroused, it must make him intensely aware of the size difference between himself and the toy, as well as what I am physically capable of handling, sexually speaking.
it occurred to me that the weight of this large dildo has to be several pounds and the sensation of it while in his hand must be very different in comparison to his own. he left it inside of me after i came and he moved up so i could suck him to orgasm. the pressure inside of me was still there, even as my body was calming down. when he went to the washroom to bring me back a warm cloth, i pushed it from my body as i reached down to grasp it and the sheer weight of it surprised me.
clearly i was aware of the size difference between a large dildo and a small penis before now, but up until this morning i had not really thought about the heaviness, the weight, the volume it takes up when i am penetrated with it. thinking back on various partners i have had, i am now cognizant of the fact that the men who are heavily endowed possess this same weight factor and it is a contributor to the erotic sensations that bring about a physical response from me in ways that a small penis does not, or simply can not accomplish.
i think that for women who do not have sexual physical limitations, this difference could be a serious factor in who they decide to have a sexual relationship with. Some women need it or can ‘take it’ and others simply are not able to, for a variety of reasons. i think that the sheer weight of a large dildo or cock is as attractive to men as it is to women, from an aesthetics point of view. i also think that its a biological response as opposed to physical preference. we see bigger as better in our primitive brains.
if there were 2 dildos side by side, identical in every way except the weight, it is my supposition that the heavier of the two would be chosen in preference time and again because subconsciously we are drawn to the bigger one, even if the only difference is in weight alone. i think this must be part of the draw, especially for men who have a small penis, to use toys on their partners. it leads to a visual comparison between what they have and what she can take, as well as a subconscious one, when he feels the weight of another, heavier ,cock in his hand when he is used to his own much lighter one.
seeing his partner respond sexually to having sex with a big, heavy dildo, in ways vastly different than her response to his own smaller, lighter penis provides the evidence his psyche is looking for, which proves that a bigger cock creates a bigger response in a sexually responsive women. perhaps in his mind, it also proves that only an exceptionally erotic and sexually powerful woman is capable of handling a bigger cock as well; which arouses him because he has secured her, as his partner or mate. that must give him an ego boost to know he has been chosen over other men, with larger endowments, when it’s obvious she could easily accommodate them.
along with his obvious sexual response to using large toys on a willing partner, it might also bring about the insecurity or fear that she will leave him, for one of these men who possess what he doesn’t have; a large cock. this conflict might initially create fear, which can be expressed as anger, that he would have to work through, to actually understand and accept his sexual response to her being fucked by larger cocks, even if they are just toys. it would require a man with a small penis to be confidant in himself and in his ability to pleasure his partner, as well as in the relationship stability itself.