the friend of a friend messaged me via facebook. he’s been messaging of and on for 3? years or so. he worked with a woman in a job before she left the company and moved into the one where we met; and i worked with her for 5 years. my privacy settings are set, her’s not so much and he ended up seeing a photo that we were both tagged in. that’s how he discovered me.
he is single, black and physically is exceptionally hard to ignore. he’s not just attractive, his body is a chiseled example of male perfection. 6ft, about 175-180, hard lean and long defined muscles. bubbled ass and is about 10 inches of very thick, heavily veined, cut cock. i know this as he has sent me pictures.
it started as him asking about my status, single? married? interested in maybe going out on a date? the mutual friend could vouch for him as not being a crazy random guy from the internet. the answer was ‘no’ but i admit that his looks caught my attention and his respectful approach to meeting me, engaged me to keep talking to him.
no, i’ve never met him. he’s asked several times over the years but why allow someone to throw gas on a fire you are trying to control. it would be hard for me to resist his advances in person as i’ve discovered that he is quite assertive, very masculine, confidant and he doesn’t allow me to be the one making the rules in conversation. in person, i know i could not withstand the attraction i feel.
over the course of our acquaintance things went from casual to flirting, then to openness and expressing sexual interest. which is how i saw his cock and learned of his preference for white women and penchant for being a bull with white couples. Preferably the man of the couple is very small so there is an extreme cock comparison. he loves seeing the difference and feeding the entire bull scenerio with his black sexual superiority and cock size.
listening to him is fascinating. the women he is with, talk to their husbands as he is servicing their sexual needs. they do a running commentary on what it feels like to be fucked, actually fucked, by a thick,heavy, real cock. the one thing i found interesting is that men who are premature ejaculators and who are 1 and done when alone with their wives, normally cum the moment they touch themselves and yet they get hard again almost immediately when they watch their wives being fucked by him. if solves the husbands erection issues.
he loves when the wives make their husband present themselves in front of her, so that the 2 cocks can be directly held and compared. there is no comparison. he loves being sexually superior, not just in size but in skill. it’s the thing that gets him off more than anything else. knowing that he is watching a man give up his wife to another man because he can’t meet her physical needs.
as much as it arouses him, he also takes the responsibility very seriously. sex to him is not just a way to get off physically. his entire focus is in exhausting the woman, pushing her past her endurance to what she thinks she can take. he starts slow and then destroys her by the end. he has complete control of his orgasm and can prolong it indefinitely. his rebound time is almost instant which makes his ability to perform incomparable to the husbands he’s substituted for.
i’ve learned a lot about the play of power by talking to him over the years. learned alot about why some white women want black lovers and why some black men only focus on white women. i’ve gained a lot of insight about why a man wants cock comparison and why there is such focus between the differences between a big cock and a small penis. mentally i think they are very different things to men and i think that most women don’t even come close to understanding this.
as simplistic as it is, comparing cocks is no different than comparing caught fish size or whose hunted deer had the bigger rack. most men are competitive and cock size is no different. when they compare cocks and skill sets with them, i think it touches a primitive place inside their brains which needs to be stimulated. when they combine this intrinsic need to compare with a sexual expression, i think it cements itself as a preference not just a fetish.
this man, this beautifully proportioned and sexually demanding man, is sexually superior to most men he comes across. he has all of the attributes a sexually available woman would need for complete satiation. he is not a lazy lover. he is a demanding one who is aroused by being able to make a woman weak with her response to his attention. he is aroused by seeing other men who have a small penis, knowing that their wives are not getting what he can give them, from their husbands.
he makes me want to have sex with him, if for no other reason, to simply see his skill set. it is tempting because it’s not often that you come across a man who is demanding in his need to have their partner not just orgasm, but to be changed by the intensity of it to not want to go back to their old partner and unsatisfying sex life. i imagine how it would be, to be serviced by him , and it makes me aroused by the idea of it. which is interesting as until i started speaking with him, i had no idea i’d find it interesting at all.