FWB expectations and explanations

sex can be easy if you define it’s parameters

it’s the communication that keeps sex coming, that can be difficult

as much as i like seeing you

only hearing from you sporadically when you’re horny

makes me feel like a booty call and it bothers me

in order to have a Friend With Benefit relationship

you need to give the friendship in order to expect the benefit

friendships require and need maintenance to work

i am aware you are busy and i’ve never made demands on your time

you have a trusted friend in me, always

but a friend that you call for sex

is a friend you find time to talk to on occasion

the reason i’ve not called for sex

is because you’ve not called in friendship

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4 Responses to FWB expectations and explanations

  1. ismeisreallyme says:

    Exactly! Relationships take work, regardless of the nature of said relationships. You have to tend to the garden, especially those that involve the exchanging of more than a passing hello. Well said, as always.

  2. Ray says:

    Quite the fine line here. Too much of friendship from one may send the other running. Not enough sex will send the other running. Tried this type of relationship one time. Disastrous. I’m an emotional person and she wanted PURELY physical. Couldn’t do it. Hats off to those that can make these things work. I’m not wired that way.

    • rougedmount says:

      its a very thin line…and one many people try to walk..some think they can manage it and end up falling…either in love or off the wire which ends in disaster.
      as with anything, it’s the process of finding the balance of what works between two people who communicate their needs to each other.

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