… so this whole “dominatrix thing” … seriously… is there a down side to this? First off let me say the man HAS to have a lot of money simply because in most types of relationships, one thing is clear; when someone spends what he did on me in 1 day, generally speaking the other spouse notices, unless they have the type of funds which make an extra mortgage payment, a non issue. Not that I knew that or even asked that he did, I simply assumed he did or was willing to spend what he had, as he didn’t balk at the things I told him to purchase. This is the math on what he purchased for me, just over the course of this afternoon and evening …
Hotel , Charms ,2 Hairbrushes $150, Lotion, 1 Dildo and lube , Lingerie, Thigh Highs, Dinner, Starbucks
Who spends that kind of money on a person they’ve never met before, even if it IS a sexual first date? He included all the receipts in case I wanted or needed to return or exchange anything. Of course, everything is fine and I’m keeping it all …but I was surprised. Part of his “submissive” side must be to give things to women; to run errands for them, to be given tasks to do. So that’s what I did…I was bossy…and demanding…we’ve all seen women who act like Diva’s and so that’s how I acted. Like myself but with the edge of how I view other women who I consider “prima bitch a rinas”.
WOW, did it work. I can not be completely mean, no matter how much I want to play the role..that’s just not who I am. So my combination seemed to throw him off and that certainly had the effect on him that was expected. As far as I know, he probably adores me and considered it money well spent…lol. But I truly didn’t know what the hell I was ‘actually’ doing.
Like I said before … if nothing else I have a very interesting memory on something I had never done before. I’ve learned that I am definitely an assertive and aggressive, even going so far as to say a very dominant type, submissive woman who is also exceptionally traditional. I’ve also learned that I am very talented at being a quasi-Dominatrix. The loving maternal side and Strict authoritative side combine to be a very powerful elixir to a man who enjoys that type of poison. And to be honest, it fit me like a well worn soft leather glove.
Oh…and I should really note that we did not have sex…and no he did not get a chance to use the toy on me.