truth: between a penis and a cock

“You have to stop referencing that glorious appendage between your thighs as your ‘penis’ because you, my darling man, have a beautiful, delightful and magnificent ‘cock’.”

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23 Responses to truth: between a penis and a cock

  1. ismeisreallyme says:

    exactly. penis is so clinical. i like to call his a deliciously addictive & intoxicating cock 🙂

  2. IceBreaker says:

    So… can every penis be a cock? 😉

    • rougedmount says:

      no, some men have a penis that will never be a cock – but ever cock IS a penis -IMO

      • IceBreaker says:

        Good to know 😉

        So is there a difference between “dick” and “cock”?

      • rougedmount says:

        grin.. to me a dick is either a penis or a cock..personally speaking, to me a cock is a penis a man uses to pleasure a woman with. the actual size can vary greatly because it really boils down to HOW he is using it on me. There are some well endowed men who do NOT have a cock…it is a penis…and there are some men who would be considered “small” yet have a fabulous cock.

      • IceBreaker says:

        Sounds fair. From reading your blog, it seems like the issue for us lesser endowed is to realize that we’re small and learn to work with what we have, and not be ashamed for being small, just work around it. Because in the end, we can still be pleasing, we just have to realize that it takes more work than normal are larger sized men. And that’s fair.

      • rougedmount says:

        I can’t tell you how pleased I am that you have come to that conclusion after reading my blog! I write “my truths” which can be vastly different, and should be, from other people. What works for one person perfectly, may be completely hated by someone else. The absolute beauty with sex and sexuality, is that there are other people who DO like what each of us brings to the table. It’s just a matter of finding them. The greatest disservice a man can do for himself and any lover in his life is to discredit himself and his needs in shaming himself into believing that he is inadequate. This breeds resentment.

        It’s not as simple or straightforward when a man has a small penis. It’s not as easy as if he is tall or has money, either. I think that women spend so much of their life, comparing themselves physically to each other, that by the time it comes to sexual matters, we learn to give that up. A man can ‘hide’ his penis size. A woman can’t hide her weight, her big ass, her close set eyes, her too curly hair, her funny looking feet. We break ourselves down constantly over every single thing possible to obsess over while many men only hyper focus on their penis size.

        You HAVE to focus on the positive of what you DO have. Acceptance of that, is the life changer that so many people who write positive things about a small penis strive to get across to men who are still struggling with it. Yes, a man with a small cock can not only “still be pleasing”, they can be PREFERED! It’s about finding a partner who will share the things that arouse both of you in the same way. You have to be honest about what excites you.

        Most women just want to please and excite their partner and so will follow his sexual lead. If his size IS an issue, for a woman who does NOT want a relationship with him, then he will find out immediately and instead of being bitter that she discarded his attention, he should celebrate the fact that he didn’t waste any more time with a woman who was sexually incompatible with him.

        I think the biggest gift that a man can take away from having a small penis, is that his sexual life is going to involve some measure of kink. Vanilla sex, missionary style in the dark, is not going to work. Is that a bad thing? No.

        Again, I want to refer back to a personal analogy; I have had lovers of dramatically varying sizes. The best lover I have ever had is by FAR not the biggest and not even close to being. He is/was in the exact middle of average. Considering the type of lover he was, I would unequivocally chose him no matter what his cock size was because of everything else he says, does and how his entire focus is ME.

        A man with a small penis, can actually end up feeling sorry for a man who is larger because he may never get to experience the degrees of sexual honesty, of sexual variety and sexual openness that is FORCED on a man with a small penis IF he chooses to accept the challenge of becoming a sexual pleaser, a giver. Most women only ever resent a small penis on a man when he blames her for their sexual issues.

  3. IceBreaker says:

    That was a phenomenal post!

    I’m curious, if you see a picture of a male art nude, does the size (or lack thereof) contribute to, or impact your ability to visually appreciate the image from an artistic perspective? What about if the image is an erotic nude?

    • rougedmount says:

      the larger a mans cock is portrayed in art, the more distracting it becomes for me. If it is average or small, it is irrelevant. I look at the lines of muscles and planes of his face. I look at fingers and shape of form. When a man is portrayed with a larger cock, them my mind shifts to erotica immediately and the other things I take enjoyment from, become secondary.

      • IceBreaker says:

        That’s an interesting observation. As an art model, I’ve always been curious if and how much artists or photographers spend actually “noticing” my endowment when I’m working with them, as well as the people who see the images. I’d guess that people that know me pay more attention than strangers since they are probably more curious to see how big it is, and since I don’t have a particularly remarkable package, it’d make sense that people pay more attention to the other parts of me.

      • rougedmount says:

        …from an artistic standpoint, a soft penis is no more remarkable than an ear or a nose. To be honest the way the fingers and toes are shaped, are more interesting. The larger the soft penis, the more you imagine it erect and an erect penis is distracting. For everyone. For anyone sexual I mean.

      • IceBreaker says:

        In that case, does it take a large penis to make good erotica?

      • rougedmount says:

        not at all – it takes an interesting one – quite frankly some are just prettier than others and erotica is about experiential immersing yourself in the moment. a large cock is simply more theatrical and is better for pornography. most men want to watch penetration and fucking while most women want to see what they want to have a man do to them when they are being made love to. Not that they don;t enjoy the other as well..

      • IceBreaker says:

        Thanks for your openness, I’m sorry but the more you’re open, the more I’m curious to ask about.

        I wonder… when you see a nude male for the first time, what are the first 4 things you notice about him?

      • rougedmount says:

        the definition of a mans back
        how his neck and shoulders blend into his chest
        the definition of his arms..deltoids, bicepts and forearms
        his testicles

      • IceBreaker says:

        Interesting that testicles come before the penis. I admit I haven’t really paid much attention to testicles when I’ve seen naked men, except for my dad’s. His are freakishly huge.

      • rougedmount says:

        a mans testes…the source of life contained inside their vulnerable shape and form. delicate. they move of their own volition and give you indication as to arousal level. they interest me.

  4. dragonfly918 says:

    Indeed! A cock is for sex; a penis is for, well, pissing.

  5. I bet every man would love to hear these words told to them. Talk about a confidence booster…

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