As a woman, I am sometimes amused when I discover my writing content is almost perfectly aligned with my fertility cycle. When I am ovulating and fertile, I get feral in my words, demanding and aggressive in my tone and speech. My content is about assertive taking of what I want. My prime goal is to have physical needs taken care of. My attraction and preference is clearly towards hard bodied, masculine males with large, everlasting endowments and stamina.
When I have passed that place in my cycle, I become gentler and softer, more accommodating and offer concessions. I am more emotional and all encompassing that we all “just get along” and everyone has positive aspects to consider. While I may still be sexual, I am more reserved with it and focus more on the emotional aspect of what my life is lacking. My preference at this time is for a more educated and cerebral man who has a majority of what I find appealing, but certainly not the overwhelming need for the big alpha type mate who I want to breed with, when I ovulate.
As a woman, if you have not recognized this aspect in yourself, I highly recommend that you take a look back at your writing and see if you can find a similar pattern. The longer period of time you have to compare, the easier it is to see. I promise you, it’s there. I think it’s absolutely fascinating and is what probably defines the core difference between a man’s and a woman’s style of writing.